I have been talking with this girl online and many in depth, over 1.5 hour plus
conversations for over 2 months now. And still haven’t met her. And yet she kept complaining
about how she can never meet a guy, etc. etc. etc. She has asked me for advice, etc. etc.
So tonight, she said it again about how she couldn’t meet any guys. So I ripped into her! And was blunt! I said, “I have asked you out over 1/2 a dozen times..”
Again, I am half yelling and berating her and ripping into her.
And said, “This is what’s wrong with women when it comes to dating and relationships, they meet a great guy they like and are attracted to and he asks you out, and yet you say you don’t know him, ie me well enough… So we talk on the phone for weeks and months and email back and forth and you still say you don’t know me well enough!”
I said, “You are an oxymoron but don’t take it to personal, because a lot of women are oxymorons when it comes to dating and meeting a guy they like. They say they want to meet a guy, and when they can, they don’t!” “And then say they can’t meet any good guys!”
She said, “but I don’t know you.” SO I said, “Well, what’s it going to take, we have been talking on the phone for over 2 months or so and some times over an hour, like tonight, we have been on the phone for 46 minutes and yet, you still say you don’t know me well enough?” She said, “No, not enough to have sex with you.” SO I said, “WHo said anything about sex.” “I have asked you to meet me for coffee in Novato, down town San Rafael, up your way in Santa Rosa, go for a walk, talk, whatever.” “If you don’t’ feel you know me well enough to at least meet me in a public place for coffee or tea, then I am done talking with you, I have better things to do!” “Because I am not getting anything out of this.” Which she then replied with, “Well, you have had amazing conversations with me!” Which I responded with, I don’t want amazing conversations with you, I can get that with anybody!” “I’m not getting what I want out of this!” “You don’t cook for me, you don’t massage me and you don’t’ have sex with me and you are not paying me a dime for what I am teaching you about relationships.” “So what the hell am I getting out of this?” “Nothing!”
She then said, “So, do you find me attractive?” I said, “I don’t really know, I have never met you in person yet!” “But I’ll tell you this, I am done wasting my time on you, waiting for you to meet with me.” “Do you really think I have nothing better to do on a Friday night than to talk to you all night long?” “How many times have I told you that I am super busy getting a ton of things done and going out having fun, etc. etc. etc.?” “And how many times have I asked you out?”
She again said, “Do you find me attractive?” I said, “Well, maybe not enough to get into a relationship with you, because that takes time and I haven’t even met you yet!” “But, do I want to fuck your brains out and give you a good pounding?” “Yes, I have wanted to fuck your brains out since day 1!!!” “But I am done wasting my time waiting for you!” “When you are ready to meet and have sex with me, you let me know!”
She then said, “Well, I have to take my accountant test in 2 to 3 weeks.” “I have to study every day for the next 2 to 3 weeks until I take that test.” “But I can come down to your place after that.”
I said, “Fine, When you are done with the test and when you know you are coming down, call me 1 or 2 days before and let me know, because I am done having these hour plus conversations with you on the phone until we have sex!”
She said, “Ok, I will.” I said, “Have a good night, good bye!” And I hung up!
See, that’s how it’s done! The minute you Caveman her ass and go “RAAAAAAAAA” “ME Caveman!”
Suddenly women are all over you! hahahaha…
So basically, I just got fed up with her and yelled at her and said, “I’m done!” Lo and behold, suddenly she wants to come down and have sex with me, cook for me and massage me! You watch, she will do all 3…
Now, one of the things is, I never once lied to her or made up wild stories. In fact, I was blunt, in her face and let her know I was angry and fed up and that was it!
Most guys would lie to her and kiss her ass and act happy and tell her what he thinks she wants to here, when deep down inside they are mad and want sex with her.
So, I told her! She knew, I was done and was ready to move on, which means, I am not hooked on her and desperate.. oh, earlier in the conversation she said, “Have you dated anyone lately?” SO I was honest and said, “no, not in the last 2 weeks, but I do have a date with a 27 year old girl tomorrow..” which by the way, is true! She’s adorable too… Which triggers her, He’s got other women after him, which means he must be wanted thus, not desperate, which means he must be of value!
Well, overall, if you are nice, women are not turned on. But when you are honest, express when you are angry, suddenly they want you! Did I lie? Nope, not once… Was I really angry? Yes, absolutely. I had, had it with this girl calling me. I wrote her off 2 weeks ago or so… I was done, no more waste of time, period..
Also, over the last 2 months or so, I have been super blunt when she was talking too quiet and would yell at her and say she’s way to quiet.. I would get mad when she would talk to fast and tell her to take a deep breath and freaking talk out loud and slowly so i can understand her, with a couple of cuss words peppered in…
Now here’s the deal.. none of this was planned. It was just pure honestly, because at this point, I am sick and tired of dealing with people who waste my time, talk so quietly and or mumble to the point I can’t freaking hear them, so I speak up and bark at them genuinely! Because I am done kissing anyone’s ass! Period!
Funny thing is, this actually attracts women, because you are not kissing their ass and are confident enough to yell and express your upset to get what you want! And that’s what it’s all about!
All of these things trigger her mating system because her mating system knows it’s not about muscles or looks, but about a caveman who can speak up for himself and bark at people when they test him or try to take from him. P.s. by the way, a lot of this stuff is her playing games, or testing you, to see if you stand up for yourself and can speak out.
So verbal, social communication and standing up for yourself tells her mating system that you can and will stand up for yourself and get what you want and deserve! And not let people walk all over you and or take advantage of you, at least without a loud, public, verbal exchange. ( In other words, a Caveman who isn’t worried about what she thinks, and will not submit himself or give up what he wants at least without a fight is a Caveman who isn’t worried about what other people think in public life and work, thus he can stand up for himself publicly and socially in a loud way and not be mentally or verbally bullied, because he doesn’t give a rats ass what other people think about him personally!” And thus gets what he wants. Get it!)
So have some boundaries and stand up for yourself, don’t let her or anyone push you around or take advantage of you! Shows you have a spine and women like that!
Me Caveman! “I know what I want! I take what I want!”
P.s. Raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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