Hey Guys...
How are you all doing?
Well, For the last few days I have been reading a very interesting, to the point type of book...
And I highly, highly recommend it to each and everyone of you...
This book is called
MODE ONE
Let the women really know what you are thinking
by Allan Currie
You can find it on Amazon
Now, First of all, I have to give a preframe.
Alan is not aware of the Indirect Romantic, Sexually erotic langauge.
So keep that in mind.
Alan does however have a really good focus and understanding on what I consider the #1 or at least top #2 or #3 reasons men come to me or other coaches in the area of Love and Relationships, especially but not only within dating and meeting women; because a lot of married men have this same problem and it's a powerful reason why women leave their husbands. They simply get sick and tired of it...
Alan breaks men down into 4 modes
Mode 1 being the strongest and most direct about your wants and Sexual needs.
And Alan's main point, is that most men don't let their sexuality and sexual needs be known! And or men don't express to women their sexual interests towards them.
And, I have to agree. Most men are raised by our society, family, parents, churches, religions, etc. to repress and hide their sexuality and their sexual wants and needs and the use of your sexual power.
And yes, Sexual energy is your Power. That's why I constantly have you go internal and open up wide through peripheral vision, because that's how you open wide to your sexual power. If this exercise feels uncomfortable to you, it's because you are afraid to openly express your sexual energy...
Remember the exercise where you can go into the small triangle #1, business mode, the triangle that is only on her eyes? Then medium small, Triangle #2 where you open up to your eyes and smile, friendly triangle? Then open up to Medium #3 Triangle to your heart, a much bigger Triangle, which is open emotionally? Then open up to your largest triangle #4 to your sexual genitals/groin area and or your entire body?
Well, the more you do this exercise, the more comfortable you will become in being wide open to the world in a really comfortable way to women, life and society. And the more you do this, the more comfortable you will be with your own sexual power or personal power as some call it. And the more you will actually get what you truly want out of life and your efforts.
See, the one thing I may not have told you, is that this is a very, very honest way of dealing with life and people and especially women. You are expressing openly about being sexual and being sexually attracted to women... And this is what makes women feel very comfortable with you sexually and socially! This is what I am doing to attract, meet and go out with lots of women.
See, when you hide or lie or camouflage about your true intentions, women can feel that and it scares them away. And, when you hide it, you get mad at yourself and feel bad. And some men then take this out on women. Hey, it's not her fault at all that you are a programmed man to hide from his own desires.
See, this is why you can't care what society, mom, dad, church, whomever tells you what to do or think or be. If you notice, there is a theme throughout my newsletters, almost in 70% of them.
It's those men who are most comfortable with their sexuality and sexual needs, that get most of the women sexually. Have you ever heard a girl or woman say she is comfortable in her own skin or in her own body? I hear it in movies, books and in person a lot. In fact, a lot of women say, that they can tell I am comfortable in my own body. And I am. Now, what that literally means, is that I am comfortable with my body, my sexual needs and desires and who I am as a person. The more comfortable you get expressing your sexual needs, the more comfortable you become with meeting, attracting and connecting with the opposite sex! Because a comfortable man makes a woman feel comfortable and at ease!
Another theme you will notice is to actually create friction... Don't be so nice. If a girl pisses you off, let her know she is standing on your toes and gently but firmly put her back in her place. See, your toes, feet and body are your place and her place is her place. And, that's a good thing. So next time a girl, lady is rude to you or takes advantage of you, stop her, let her know that's not cool. Believe it or not, but she will actually appreciate you letting her know!
For now, I simply want to highly, highly recommend Alan's book. It will do wonders for your entire life. The good news is, it's actually a very small book, only 152 medium small pages with big lettering and big spacing. So you can read it within a few days to a week.
At this point, I can't recommend a better book for what's holding most men back from everything they want in life, especially with women!
Best wishes. I hope you are all moving forward in your personal development one day at a time!
Mike Kollin
415 456 8558
http://mikekollin.com
http://www.thumbtack.com/ca/san-rafael/life-coach/dating-relationship-coaching?page_id=53
Monday, March 28, 2011
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