“CAVEMAN TAKES WHAT HE WANTS AND VERBALLY STANDS UP FOR WHAT HE WANTS!"

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Dec

I have been talking with this girl online and many in depth, over 1.5 hour plus
conversations for over 2 months now. And still haven’t met her. And yet she kept complaining
about how she can never meet a guy, etc. etc. etc. She has asked me for advice, etc. etc.

So tonight, she said it again about how she couldn’t meet any guys. So I ripped into her! And was blunt! I said, “I have asked you out over 1/2 a dozen times..”

Again, I am half yelling and berating her and ripping into her.

And said, “This is what’s wrong with women when it comes to dating and relationships, they meet a great guy they like and are attracted to and he asks you out, and yet you say you don’t know him, ie me well enough… So we talk on the phone for weeks and months and email back and forth and you still say you don’t know me well enough!”

I said, “You are an oxymoron but don’t take it to personal, because a lot of women are oxymorons when it comes to dating and meeting a guy they like. They say they want to meet a guy, and when they can, they don’t!” “And then say they can’t meet any good guys!”

She said, “but I don’t know you.” SO I said, “Well, what’s it going to take, we have been talking on the phone for over 2 months or so and some times over an hour, like tonight, we have been on the phone for 46 minutes and yet, you still say you don’t know me well enough?” She said, “No, not enough to have sex with you.” SO I said, “WHo said anything about sex.” “I have asked you to meet me for coffee in Novato, down town San Rafael, up your way in Santa Rosa, go for a walk, talk, whatever.” “If you don’t’ feel you know me well enough to at least meet me in a public place for coffee or tea, then I am done talking with you, I have better things to do!” “Because I am not getting anything out of this.” Which she then replied with, “Well, you have had amazing conversations with me!” Which I responded with, I don’t want amazing conversations with you, I can get that with anybody!” “I’m not getting what I want out of this!” “You don’t cook for me, you don’t massage me and you don’t’ have sex with me and you are not paying me a dime for what I am teaching you about relationships.” “So what the hell am I getting out of this?” “Nothing!”

She then said, “So, do you find me attractive?” I said, “I don’t really know, I have never met you in person yet!” “But I’ll tell you this, I am done wasting my time on you, waiting for you to meet with me.” “Do you really think I have nothing better to do on a Friday night than to talk to you all night long?” “How many times have I told you that I am super busy getting a ton of things done and going out having fun, etc. etc. etc.?” “And how many times have I asked you out?”

She again said, “Do you find me attractive?” I said, “Well, maybe not enough to get into a relationship with you, because that takes time and I haven’t even met you yet!” “But, do I want to fuck your brains out and give you a good pounding?” “Yes, I have wanted to fuck your brains out since day 1!!!” “But I am done wasting my time waiting for you!” “When you are ready to meet and have sex with me, you let me know!”

She then said, “Well, I have to take my accountant test in 2 to 3 weeks.” “I have to study every day for the next 2 to 3 weeks until I take that test.” “But I can come down to your place after that.”

I said, “Fine, When you are done with the test and when you know you are coming down, call me 1 or 2 days before and let me know, because I am done having these hour plus conversations with you on the phone until we have sex!”

She said, “Ok, I will.” I said, “Have a good night, good bye!” And I hung up!

See, that’s how it’s done! The minute you Caveman her ass and go “RAAAAAAAAA” “ME Caveman!”
Suddenly women are all over you! hahahaha…

So basically, I just got fed up with her and yelled at her and said, “I’m done!” Lo and behold, suddenly she wants to come down and have sex with me, cook for me and massage me! You watch, she will do all 3…

Now, one of the things is, I never once lied to her or made up wild stories. In fact, I was blunt, in her face and let her know I was angry and fed up and that was it!

Most guys would lie to her and kiss her ass and act happy and tell her what he thinks she wants to here, when deep down inside they are mad and want sex with her.

So, I told her! She knew, I was done and was ready to move on, which means, I am not hooked on her and desperate.. oh, earlier in the conversation she said, “Have you dated anyone lately?” SO I was honest and said, “no, not in the last 2 weeks, but I do have a date with a 27 year old girl tomorrow..” which by the way, is true! She’s adorable too… Which triggers her, He’s got other women after him, which means he must be wanted thus, not desperate, which means he must be of value!

Well, overall, if you are nice, women are not turned on. But when you are honest, express when you are angry, suddenly they want you! Did I lie? Nope, not once… Was I really angry? Yes, absolutely. I had, had it with this girl calling me. I wrote her off 2 weeks ago or so… I was done, no more waste of time, period..

Also, over the last 2 months or so, I have been super blunt when she was talking too quiet and would yell at her and say she’s way to quiet.. I would get mad when she would talk to fast and tell her to take a deep breath and freaking talk out loud and slowly so i can understand her, with a couple of cuss words peppered in…

Now here’s the deal.. none of this was planned. It was just pure honestly, because at this point, I am sick and tired of dealing with people who waste my time, talk so quietly and or mumble to the point I can’t freaking hear them, so I speak up and bark at them genuinely! Because I am done kissing anyone’s ass! Period!

Funny thing is, this actually attracts women, because you are not kissing their ass and are confident enough to yell and express your upset to get what you want! And that’s what it’s all about!

All of these things trigger her mating system because her mating system knows it’s not about muscles or looks, but about a caveman who can speak up for himself and bark at people when they test him or try to take from him. P.s. by the way, a lot of this stuff is her playing games, or testing you, to see if you stand up for yourself and can speak out.

So verbal, social communication and standing up for yourself tells her mating system that you can and will stand up for yourself and get what you want and deserve! And not let people walk all over you and or take advantage of you, at least without a loud, public, verbal exchange. ( In other words, a Caveman who isn’t worried about what she thinks, and will not submit himself or give up what he wants at least without a fight is a Caveman who isn’t worried about what other people think in public life and work, thus he can stand up for himself publicly and socially in a loud way and not be mentally or verbally bullied, because he doesn’t give a rats ass what other people think about him personally!” And thus gets what he wants. Get it!)

So have some boundaries and stand up for yourself, don’t let her or anyone push you around or take advantage of you! Shows you have a spine and women like that!

Me Caveman! “I know what I want! I take what I want!”

P.s. Raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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"I JUST MET THE CUTEST JAPANESE GIRL!!!"

She's super cute!

She's here studying for English!

Now, here's the deal... the way we met was easy enough...

She was in the Coffee shop with her cute friend. And all the guys were staring at her/them. But, nobody was approaching them. So, what did I do different?

Well, #1, First of all I wasn't intimidated by the fact that they were super cute and adorable. All these guys were sitting around, looking, staring at them, but didn't approach...

#2 I didn't let social rules stop me. See, this is the number #1 thing that stops most men dead in their tracks. They are so concerned or worried about what other people would think. Or if they are too old or whatever!

Now, here's one of the Secrets to the female mating system. She will only mate and or date a male who doesn't follow stupid societal rules. And here's why. If it's not a law or it will mean death, then why would you let other people stop you from getting what you want. Now, that's a very, very smart instinct the female mating system has. Her system is looking for a man who goes after what he wants and takes it! Yes, I am dead serious. Now here's why. If you are too afraid to meet a girl in public because some idiot or person or whatever made up some B.S. rule that isn't a law, then her mating system won't mate with you, because you are to easy to push off of your goals.

Now, think about it! If you are too much of a wimp to actually go after what you want, then you are not man enough to make it in the real world and be able to feed her and the family... In all sincerity, do you see how this works?

There are so many intricate and basic things going on, on the instinctual level, that when it all comes down to it, our mating systems actually are smarter than us when it comes to dating and relationships... all you have to do is get out of your own way and literally follow your heart, because that will unconsciously lead you to the promised land! Yes, I mean that!

So, #1 if you want it, go for it! Just do what I did... I saw 2 cute girls and was like "Oh yeah!" "I'm in!" These are not the 2 girls I met at the coffee shop. I will upload their pictures or the girl who's number I got as soon as I go on the first date.

#2 I didn't care what the other people in the room thought about me. In fact, one guy who was sitting about 8 feet away, was totally turned and staring at them and actually freaking them out. So first of all, don't ever do that. IF you stare at a girl and wait, it will freak her out. Just go up and talk to her. Otherwise, turn away and ignore her. Yes, I am serious.

Now, what I did was, I saw 3 tables were open in their area. And, I broke another unspoken social rule you can find in any good/basic body language book. The normal, polite thing to do would be to sit at the far table or the middle table... Nope! I sat right next to them...

But, what I did next is a little secret or a part of a series of secrets that I do on a regular basis. I pulled the table away from them, only about 6 inches to a foot max, and turned my body away and leaned away from them. And then I took my back pack and then my jacket and put it in between us and literally built it up like I was building a barrier in between us! hahaha... I'm teasing them and confusing them for fun!

And then guess what I did next? I completely ignored them as I was turned away, reading a book with my legs crossed, which means another barrier is up saying, I don't want to be bothered.

Now, why do I do this? Why do I do all of these things that tells her/them that I am not interested, I just want to be left alone, etc.?

I do it, becasue the female mating system is hard wired to detect desperation. A man who is desperate and practically begging for Love or Attention or a girl is a total turn off, because if this man is desperate, then he must not have social value. And it's all about your social value and how to express this in a way that attracts and turns women on. Yes, Social power, Social communication, Body language literlly turn women on!

Now why is this? It's because, her mating system is looking for a man who is valued by society by his very presence in a room full of total and complete strangers! Yep, that's right! Now, why is this? Because, if a man can gain social power and respect in a room full of people, then he will have a better chance at survival and feeding his children, because he can gain more social connections with people and can get favors and help from all the social connections he creates.

So yes, when you see some guys just walk into a room and they just seem to own the room and people just seem to gravitate towards them and give them what they want, there is an actual science to this madness. And the great thing is, you can learn how to do this. It's not that hard once you start to see it!

#3 The next thing that happened, was I casually asked them if they were here from Japan studying English. Because there is a University here and a really good program that helps Japanese students to come here and live with host families for up to 1 years to learn English better as a part of their studies as part of their studies in Japanese Universities.

So, when they said yes, they are here to study English, they said it with a wide eyed look as to say, "How do you know?" So then I responded with, I have met many Japanese girls from Japan who have came here to study at that same college for the same program.

Now, what did I just do here? It shows familiarity. Now I am not just some total stranger. I am a guy who has met other Japanese girls and obviously made friends with them in the past, because I mentioned a few things about their program and why they were here. And to them it is obvious that it's true because how else could I know? (Now, this is only a light level of familiarity, but it does count.)

And then I dropped the big one. I actually dated a girl from Japan who happened to be in a very similar program, and was also staying with a host family in San Francisco, just like them. So then I pulled out my cell phone and showed her the pictures of her and I hugging and her kissing my cheek, etc. So, the girls smiled in approval and lit up. (This scores big on the familiarity level with girls and also shows that women like you and go out with you and kiss you! Thus it makes you more valuable.)

They asked about her and how long she stayed, etc. etc. and this sparked up a short conversation for a few minutes. And we laughed, smiled etc. I then realized that I was liked by these girls and that 1 of the girls had chosen me. So once I realized this, I played hard to get and simply said, nice to talk to you and have a good day, enjoy, etc. etc. and then I turned away, crossed my legs and went back to reading... hahaha... (Which raises my Value to them.) I ignore them. hehe...

Now, why am I doing this? Why am I ignoring them? Because it drives women crazy when a guy isn't completely and totally focused on them. hahahaha... it all because women/girls have this think I call "The Cat and Mouse" function, which is hard wired, literally into her nervous system and mating system. And when you play hard to get, it triggers her to want to chase you! See! There is a way to get women to chase you instead of you chasing them. In fact, if she is not chasing you, paying for all the dinners and expensive gifts in the world won't do a damn thing!

She literally must be so interested in you that she chases you! And basically, how you do that, is by ignoring her at the right times. This is the other Japanese girl I dated and whose picture I used to show these 2 girls in this blog. She's a cutie huh!

So after a few minutes, maybe 5 or so, I then asked them if they are having fun here in the U.S. and if they are going out to clubs. And they giggled and responded and said, "Yes" and that they mostly enjoy shopping here and have a lot of fun shopping.

Now, what did I do here? I steered or directed the conversations into a fun place simply by asking them if they are having fun here. So their brain has to focus on fun just to understand the conversation.

See, steering a conversations to a positive place is as easy as asking a fun question about fun things or simply talking about interesting, fascinating and or fun things. It's literally that easy and makes you a great conversationalist, which is the #1 thing that turns women on sexually! Yes, conversations, effective communication literally turns women on. The better you get at it, the easier it becomes.

That's why I say, "Meeting girls and turning women on is easy once you know how!" Oh, and it's fun too!

#4 Now, as I was talking to these girls back and forth, I noticed the men in the room were giving me the disapproval look and the almost angry, your a bad guy look... hahahahaha...

Now here's the deal, this can and will work in your favor if you do 1 thing. Laugh at them, ignore them. This one guy who like I said before was about 8 feet away was really trying to give me the evil eye and disapproval look and the girls saw it. So, I literally starting smiling inside and almost laughed out loud. I just simply had this shitty grin and inside was laughing, because I knew that his guy didn't have the balls to approach these girls and was mad that I did.

Now, here's the deal. It was very clear that the reason this guy didn't approach, or rather his excuse, was because these girls were in college and he was about 45 and in his mind, he was too old. Now, I am almost as old as this guy and I didn't let any excuse stop me let alone my freaking age.

Hey, it's a free country and I don't let other people tell me what I can or can't do, especially when it comes to social rules or personal values or personal morals, etc. etc. Because, that's their B.S., not yours or mine!

And, And, hahahaha... I know something that these guys don't know. Younger girls love, love to date older guys! I am serious. It's hard wired into their mating systems to mate with older guys. There are too many reasons to go over them all right here; such as mother nature knows what she is doing and purposely hard wired younger women/girls to chase older guys and hard wires guys to be highly attracted to younger women.

So I am sitting there and I laugh at this guy, rather grin at him and sit back and look around the room confidently, because in my head, I can see all the excuses the guys in this room are using to not approach these 2 beautiful, hot and cute/sexy girls. They were too old or not tall enough or not rich enough, good looking enough, or whatever their B.S. says. And the worst part, is none of it is true! None of these things are what attracts girls to guys at all...

So, when I looked around and grinned, these girls knew exactly what I was thinking. I don't give a damn what you guys think. You guys didn't approach these girls because you let fear tell you what to do, and I didn't! Thus, the spoils go to the guy who takes it! Period end of sentence.

Now, it doesn't end here.

I then go back to ignoring the girls and even say, "Nice to meet you, have a great day, etc. etc.." And they are slightly shocked and then get up to leave as I go back to turning away and ignoring them.

They slowly walk out and I noticed, they stayed right next to the door, just on the outside as they glanced at me. And again, I ignore them...

And then I noticed the guy in the chair 8 feet away gives me this look like some how he accomplished something because the girls left. I looked up at him and just giggled and shook my head, because, I'm not done yet. Everything is set in play, perfectly!

So, then the girls start to walk to the corner, and then I grab my back pack, go out, grab my bike and then went across the street to meet them and said "Hello!" We chatted for about 5 minutes and the one girl acted like her phone rang, which, it didn't... hahaha.. it was in her purse and there is no way she could have felt it if it was vibrating, and I would have heard that too...

So, I realized that the girl next to me who had then stepped close to me within breaths distance, had probably told the other girl that she liked me and wanted me. So at this point, it's a complete wrap and I chit chat for about 3 minutes and ask her if she wants my number and she hesitated. And then I said, "Do you want to give me your number so I can call you?" And then she lit up and said, "Yes!" hahahaha...

So now, watch this. I purposely asked her to hold onto my hot chocolate, even though she had a cell phone in 1 hand and her drink in the other... hahahaha.. this shows that she is willing to do for you which is a strong sign that she really likes you!

*** Note, Guys, girls do not want to be the one to call you. That's your job!

So then I got her number, saved it. And then was about to leave when she said, "Can you call my phone so I can have your?" So I again asked her to hold my drink, and again, she complied. Then pulled my phone back out and called her. Then gave her a big hug and took off!

Oh, and yes, the guy in the Chair was outside at this point watching us, and I purposely rode my bike back across the street towards him and raised my Hot chocolate drink towards him as if to say, "That's how you do it!" hahahahaha...

And Off I rode into the sunset knowing I am going to have a great winter playing with this deliciously hot girl through the cold winter nights at my place! hahahahaha...

Now seriously, if you want to get off your ass and start to learn how to do all of these things in a step by step manner, then give me a call right now and show up to my next workshop or sign up for my 1 on 1 coaching sessions.

Now, this is not easy for the male brain to learn at first, but once you start to catch on, it literally becomes addictive and very fun! And your entire life will change!

You will become that confident guy in the coffee shop picking up on the cute girls while all the other guys stair in amazement and jealously helplessly wishing they could be you!

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WHAT'S THIS PICKUP ARTIST STUFF REALLY ALL ABOUT?

Well, a lot of guys think they are learning how to pick up on girls because they are horny or because they want to be cool or impress their buddies and or all of the above!

But, but, what is this all really about?

Well most of these guys, you, who read books on pickup, seduction, pickup artist, romance and dating tips for men are shocked when you get far down the path to learning how to meet the girl of your dreams. And its' actually a really cool thing!

At first you learn all the lines in the world. Pickup lines, tricks, games and all kinds of cool and or trick and even quite manipulative things to do and or say, which I don't really like...

So you learn how to open a conversation, you learn what to say, what to do, how to turn your body and all of that...

Then over time you learn there is actually a game and it's called, "THE GAME!" And then you start to see a part of what's really going on. And you find out, you don't really like this. And you realize that it was never your game or guys game. You start to realize, learn and see that "The Game" is the females game, not the guys game. In fact, it's you who have to learn her game...

So you start to get pissed off because this entire time, you always thought it was the guys playing or spittin game on the girls and how society makes single men look bad for doing this. Yet, you know as well as all the girls know, that if you are nice and polite and open doors and pay for dinners, you don't get a girlfriend. Or if you do get a girlfriend, she cheats on you with the guy whom everyone calls the jerk.

Or, it's the jerks who get all the girls. And that my friends is a fact. And you know it... And then you start getting mad at the Jerks, at the girls and at society... I mean, here you are a good guy. Paying for dinners, even though she makes almost double what you make. And you open doors even though she has 10 times more social power than you! And after a while, you feel like a sucker because she eats dinner, gives you a kiss on the cheek and then goes out with her girlfriends to meet all the jerks.

And after a few years or more than a few years of this... you realize it's you who are the good guy and it's her and her and her who are all doing drugs, partying, having unprotected sex and sleeping around, cheating on you and a lot more...

Then you get pissed off! You've had it... and that's where it all starts! Your get some balls... yes, you finally say fuck it! I am done being the nice guy! I am done paying for dinner... She can pay for dinner you say... And then when she calls you up and says, "are we going to dinner?" You say, "NO! I am done paying for diner, I've had it!" And then she is stunned.. what is happening to her little boy? Is he finally going to put his foot down and tell me where to shove it? Is he finally getting some balls?

And then you say, "I am sick and tired of paying for dinners and paying for flowers only for you to run off with your friends and have fun without me!"

And then it happens... She apologizes... and now you are shocked... I mean, this is the last thing you would ever think would happen... And then, she asks you if she can buy you dinner... She says, "I'll pay!"

Now you are thinking, what the hell is going on? Wait? You mean by yelling at her and saying "NO!" She actually is being nice to me...

So you go out and she adores you, kisses you, clasp your hands, intertwining her fingers with yours, in public... and she doesn't even notice the waiter who is 6'3", in perfect shape, athletic/muscular... she is totally focused on you!

She then pays for the entire dinner and insists... and inside, you are looking at her, like, am I in the twilight zone? What the hell is going on here? Why is she being so damn nice to me... Why is she working so hard to please me?

So then she comes home with you and insists on giving you a full body massage... and you are like, "wait, whenever I ask her for a massage, she blows me off or gets mad or whines, or leaves with her friends..." "SO what's going on here?"

And then it happens... she gives you a blow job and it all gets hot and heavy from there... She never gives you a blow job!!! She starts making wild passionate love to you... She does things that she's never done before... you are shocked, stunned... And then she curls up with you and clings to you and falls asleep in your arms...

And you are like what the hell is going on?

So you wake up and she has breakfast cooked, your favorite chocolate pancake with pink stripes... And then you think... hmmm... I think I need to let go of the pink stripes.... and then you think, what the hell am I thinking... where did that thought come from? And then you hear a voice from down below say, "Your balls!!!"

So then she runs off and cleans the kitchen, starts to vacuum and more....

So you realize, "Hey, wait a minute, this is a freaking dream"; until you get out of bed and stub your toe and are screaming from the pain only to find her run in to see if you are ok...

And then you ask her, "Is everything ok?" "Did someone die?" And then she giggles and says, "No silly!" "Why would you say that?" And then you say, "Because you are actually being nice to me!" "What's going on?" "Did someone put you up to this?" "Did you lose a bet?" And then she giggles again and says, "What are you talking about?" "I always treat you like this, you are my hunny bear?"

And inside you are saying, "You have never treated me like this?"

So then you lay back down and you start to day dream and ponder the amazing night and morning you just had with your girlfriend who has never been like that with you...

And then it pops into your head and you think, "wait a minute!" "Is she being nice to me because I got mad and yelled at her and said "No!"??? And then you hear a muted scream from down below and your balls say, "Yes, you freaking idiot!" "That's what I have been trying to tell you!" "She wants you to be the man and put your damn foot down already!" "Damn Fool!"

So then you sit back and you are all on fire thinking, "No way, is this the secret to getting hot girls?" "Is this the secret to getting what you want from a relationship?" "Really?" "Holy shit!" "I've got to test this out!"

So you figure, you have been the nice guy your entire life... and it never worked... to the point, you have spent every dime, opened every door, said "Excuse me, pardon, etc. etc." and you never got laid or only once in a while and then she would run off or turn away...

So you say, "Screw it!!!!" "I'm done being Mr. Nice guy!" And off you go into a world of saying, "NO!" "NO!" "NO!" And you find your magical power. You stopped letting people use you or make fun of you! You stopped putting up with rude people. You stopped letting people step on your toes and screw you over! You've had it and you are not putting up with peoples bullshit anymore!

You start to get up and walk out on dinners, lunches and friends parties... And then suddenly people start to respect you and treat you better! And the girls are all over you and want to be with you and win your heart... Now they treat you better and want you to marry them!

Now you are the guy all the other guys envy!

And then one day it hits you! You've become the jerk... except, wait a minute! You are not a jerk at all... you just have boundaries and self respect and don't let women take advantage of you! You make her carry her weight in the relationship now or you walk! And she knows it now and respects you for that!

Wow! What a revelation.. who would have thought that having self respect is what it's all about!

Yes, my friends, this is all about Self Respect and having Firm Boundaries!

If you truly want to learn how to develop Self Respect and boundaries, then give me a call and let's put this into action so you can start Living Life to the Fullest!

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Understanding Women Is Key to Sex!

The Key to Success with women from Dating, Relationships, Marriage and pickup and Seduction is "Understanding!" So, if the greater your understanding of women, the greater your chances of making love, being loved and a lot more fun! If you are a single guy and want to make love to that new girl you just met, then this article is for you! If you are married and you want to save your marriage and learn how to massively turn on your wife and bring her closer to you mentally, emotionally and physically, then this article is for you too!

Well, as I was talking with a client of mine yesterday, and what I was hearing was that he could meet women and was very good at starting conversations, getting numbers, going on dates and having a lot of fun with women. And was even really good at using the language patterns to turn women on, but... He just couldn't close the deal.

Now this is what we call a sticking point!

So, he said, "Well, I'm afraid of rejection!" "Every time I get a girl alone and in the zone for sex, they always pull away or hesitate..." And I said, "What does that mean to you?" (I'll explain what this means in a little bit!)

And my client said, "It means they don't want sex!" "And they aren't like that!" etc.. etc.. And I said, "How do you know?" And then my client let it all out! He said, "Well, because I realize they are probably thinking, or saying in their head, that they are not like this!" And I said, "Well, how well does that thought work for you?" And they said, "What do you mean?" I said, "Well, first, how could you possibly know that's what they are thinking?" And my client said, "Well, that's what I think they are thinking!" And again I said, "How well is that thought working for you?" And my client said, "it's not!" So I said, "Would you be willing to explore the possibilities of what's really going on?" And my clients said, "Yeah, of course!"

And over an hour or so of conversation, I realized my client had all this nonsense and chatter going on in his head! But, I do realize that this person was really close to what was needed. See, my client was compassionate and didn't want the girl to feel bad, but was off thinking and creating the wrong thoughts and experience for himself and her...

Now, the first thing you have to know, is it's all about the energy or atmosphere that you create first with your thoughts, secondly with your body language and tonality.

So I said, "Well, you are creating thoughts of worry by asking these questions and thinking these thoughts." "So stop doing that!" "What you need to do is realize a few things!" "First of all, you need to start creating thoughts and feelings of what you want her to feel and connect with you in these intimate moments!" "Like warm, loving, sensual, pleasurable and comforting thoughts of romance, love and intimacy!"

Now this is what you need to do.

#1 Stop listening to your head...I am dead seriously, stop this nonsense, because it will get you no where!

Instead, listen to your body. I'm serious... Have you ever heard of that TV commercial for Fruit Loops cereal? Where the Bird is in a jungle and it's nose is all full of different brightly vibrant colors? Where it says, "Follow your nose, it always knows!" Well, I am telling you the same thing but in a slightly different light, "Follow your cock, it always knows!"

So start listening to your sexual feelings, urges and follow them, because they will lead you to the Motherland! And that's a great place to be, trust me! hehe...

Now you might think that's funny, but it is more true than you realize. Your sexual drive and body know exactly what to do! So just follow it! And for crying out loud, stop listening to your damn mind...

#2 Create an environment of trust where she can trust you will take care of things!

This is the most important section in this article. This is what the article was really written for!

She needs for you to reassure her and let her know that you are taking care of her and it's your responsibility! Because then she can relax and surrender to you sexually... Now this is a huge thing that men have a hard time understanding, because you are the male, the penetrater, not the female who has to literally open up her legs and let you inside of her and possibly get her pregnant. If you are a stranger or this is your first time, she absolutely must feel safe and trust you! It is absolutely your job to make her feel safe, emotionally bonded with you and comfortable to completely surrender, open up and make love with you!

She takes on the worry of what if I get pregnant? Is he going to stick around and help me? Is he going to make me feel safe? So you have to let her know with your body language, the way you take charge, lead and talk that you've got it, that you have it all taken care of. That everything is fine. That together you and her can do this... and everything is going to be wonderful, this is going to be a wonderful experience with you...

It's your job to create an emotionally safe and emotionally fulfilling experience for her! So talk smooth, relax, slow down, touch her gently and make her melt by your very touch and with the magic of your words!

And from this point on, simply focus on the amazing pleasure the 2 of you are about to experience together! That's what you should be focusing on! Period! So stop being so serious and just loosen up, have some fun. Be playful and fun! Ok!

* Tip, watch a funny movie. Or anything that gets you laughing. Laughter will get you sex easier than anything else, even more than Romantic movies or a Romantic Dinner or flowers! Get a massage or give her a massage. Just relax and let go... A little wine is ok too.

#3 Create an open, accepting and non-judgmental environment for her! So she feels safe emotionally.

She needs to know she is not going to be thought of as a slut or whore or anything like that the next day. Because women do enjoy sex and want sex and pleasure just as bad as men do. So if you want to have an amazingly sexual and erotic experience with her, then you must let her know that it's ok to let go and enjoy to the fullest and you won't think any different of her or judge her. You must create a completely non-judgmental environment for her. Just accept her for the beautiful girl that she is and she is sharing herself with you.

#4 You must also create a completely free environment where she can feel free to come back to you, be with you and connect sexually with you, because she wants to, not because you put some kind of guilt trip on her or worse, because you are trying to control her or change her in any way!

This must be an experience where the 2 of you can freely come together and enjoy each others pleasure.

Again, learning how to completely let go of the outcome and her is your secret key to the power of Love and Pleasure!

#5 When a woman hesitates, she is actually saying, "I surrender, take me."

I bet you didn't know that one huh?

And she's also saying, "but I can't be a whore and let you have it." "I have to act like I am innocent and pure and i am not having sex because I want sex, but because you took it from me or you led me here!" So when she gently hesitates and gets quiet, that is a definite signal saying, "You have the green light, go for it!" "Take it!" "Oh GAWD Man Take it already, just go for it!" hahaha...

At this point, with most women all you will have to do is simply keep moving forward and just start kissing her, touching her and begin to take her clothes off. If she says, "No, or not yet, she doesn't necessarily mean that, she's really saying, "I need to more time to get more and more turned on to the point of "NO RETURN!". So back off a little bit and maybe just hold her for a second and assure her by saying, "It's Ok, I've got you!" And say that while you are holding her firmly and comfortably. And then start all over and keep moving forward. You may have to do this more than a few times. But whatever you do, don't completely stop. Imagine it's like a sport where you need to take a breather and catch your breath!

Now in contrast, if she is yelling in an angry tone, "NO!" "Stop, and is pushing you away very hard, and saying, "I do not want this, etc.", then that is a definite no sign. But if she is doing it playfully and having fun saying no, then it's on! The main point or core understanding, is you have to know that women want you to be the responsible one and that they can't socially/publicly say, "I want sex!" because in our society and most societies, that would mean that she's a whore and will be disrespected! This is really her way of making you show that you are the man and it's you who is leading her to sex, not her! So she may back off a few times, so that's ok. Just keep plowing! Yes, at this point, you have to use this technique I call "PLOWING!" But you will have to do it with finesse.

Now, that being said, every girl is different. So you will have to simply pay attention to her. What does she need right now? What does she want to lead her forward into having sex. Basically, just look at her, is she smiling, grinning, does she have that devilish grin? Does she have that "Omg", I am so freaking horny look? What does she look like, breath like, move like? Is she holding you, turned away, what? Start to notice her and where she is at in the moment! That is probably the biggest most important thing I can tell you!

Another technique you can do is simply get up, out of bed, and go watch some TV or make some ice cream or pop corn or throw in a movie and invite her, from the other room or at the end of the bed, "Nonchalantly" without looking at her, over your shoulder or from the other room, to join you are ask her if she wants some ice cream. And do it in a nonchalant, buddy, nonsexual kind of way! Now that will really throw her for a loop. hehe... Trust me, she is not used to guys like this!

Another thing you can do is pull out a board game and play. Now a video game might really piss her off, so I would avoid that, unless you absolutely know she loves to play video games. Too many guys get addicted to their video games and it really pissed women off, so I really wouldn't do this. Besides, a board game invites her to interact with you!

I once dated this cute Asian girl and we ended up at my place, and we ended up in the bedroom. We were on the couch cuddling, kissing and she kept saying in a playful girly voice, "no", "no", "no", but kept kissing me and holding me and pulling me back every time I leaned away and started watching T.V.. (This is a playing hard to get technique. Women love it when you play that cat and mouse game. So be a challenge to the very end! hehe...)

CAVEMAN TECHNIQUE:

So when she pulled me to her, I stood up and she grabbed my shirt and tried to pull me back down, so I did my Trademark move that is literally named after my business's name, Caveman Technologies! hehe... I pulled a Caveman on her! hahaha... I literally grabbed her and threw her over my shoulder and smacked her on the ass and then Roared like a Caveman! RAAAAAAAAAAAAAA... And then I carried her to my bed with her laughing the entire way.

Now, you must know that this technique actually turns women on massively in a big, big way! I am serious. It is hard-wired into her DNA from almost 100,000 years of Cavemen doing this to cave girls. If you want to learn this technique on how to Roar like a Caveman, I will teach you... hahahaha..

So, when we got into bed and I started acting like a Caveman Roaring and while taking off her clothes, she was laughing and at the same time was saying "no", "no", "no", but was also laughing and giggling and she never tried to get out of bed and was being playful the entire time. In fact, when I stopped and pulled back, she would grab me and start kissing me and never made any attempt of pulling her shirt back on or her pants, etc. This was her way of saying, "Yes, take it!" So guess what I did? I took it! hahaha...

So, I just kept going acting like a Caveman and we had the best time ever! It really was an amazingly intensely sexual experience for us both!

So learning how to read women's indirect signals is vital...

Oh, I almost forgot!

#6 Women Love to Role Play!

Yes! Women love to role-play different roles. Personally, I like to be the Caveman because it really resonates with my personality! And women love to be taken by a Caveman! Other roles are Doctor role, etc.

Now the thing to understand, is that this role-playing gives her plausibility of deniability to her friends or anyone. Because it wasn't sex, it was role-playing. It wasn't her, it was a game, etc. So this will actually allow her to open up and experience the greatest sex of her life!

The female brain is hard-wired to her imagination big time! So the more you can engage her imagination the more pleasurable and erotic her experiences will be with you! And if you are married, this technique will definitely light the fire in your relationship again.

Have fun and enjoy life together! That's what we are here for!

#7 You want to know what the goal is!

This one is huge! You have to know what your target is, so you can aim at it! Actually, this is a very powerful secret in sports and in hypnosis. See, if you don't know where you are going, your unconscious mind can't take you there, because it's your unconscious mind that actually does all the work of your body language, tonality, and other unconscious processes.

So, start imagining what you want! Like maybe you want to imagine making wild, passionate love with her! Imagine holding you, kissing you passionately. Imagine feeling the heat coming from her body. Imagine her completely melting into you and making love to you, holding you, clinging to you firmly with passion and lust in her eyes, arms and entire body, making her legs quiver!

Now that' s a Goal and a clear target!

IMAGINE HAVING WHAT YOU WANT AND YOU WILL!!!

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The Biggest Mistakes Guys Make When Meeting Girls!

Hello and Welcome Back!

I'm Mike Kollin, also know as The Love Doctor!

And I have made some really powerful discoveries in Female Psychology and communication. Now I am absolutely going to give you one the most important understandings to have when it comes to meeting women and also when in a relationship. If you don't understand this, you will lose every time! (That's me and my girl! She's a cutie!)

#1 Women will test you a lot and all the time!

#2 Women associate your behavior with her out to society! (I'll explain in a minute.)

#3 You need to stand your ground, period!

#1 Now, what's going on? The absolute biggest mistake men make when meeting girls is they try to be freaking nice!!! OMG! Stop doing this for crying out loud. Now, I have been teaching men how to communicate with women, to seduce women, pickup on women professionally for over 14 years now, maybe more. And I have got to tell you, the #1 Biggest most massive, huge mistake guys make when going to clubs or lounges or whatever is they think that by being soft and quiet and nice will attract a girl... It won't!

I can tell you, beyond a shadow of a doubt, the guys who get the girls and get the girls a lot all have this one thing in common! They are aggressive and make no apologies about it. And they will put a girl in her place if she tests him. And trust me, she will test you! They are literally neurologically hard-wired to test you in public for one reason and one reason only!

They are trying to see if you care what other people think and if you are a good boy who follows rules! Why? The reason, is because if you are more worried about what other people think of you than what you want, then you are not a good Caveman. And a Caveman who is so freaking mentally wimpy that he is worried about what girls or other people think of him in public to the point where he doesn't stand up for himself and call her on her B.S. then he is not a good mate to mate with. She needs a strong Caveman who takes what he wants and doesn't even notice what other people thing! Period! That's it!

A caveman who follows rules is a weak caveman and he gets the scraps of society, which means her children with him will also get the scraps of society and will not have the best possible opportunities in life! And that is everything to her Reptilian/Cave girls mating system. Yes, I am dead serious and it has everything to do with her choosing you for sex or not!

What you have to understand, is that for women, when she is at a club or lounge or any place meeting strange men, her smaller reptilian brain takes over and she goes on auto pilot and is under her mating systems control. Yes, I am serious. It's hard-wired into her. So, if you think women are logical and make sense when choosing mates, then you need to wake up and open up your eyes and take a look around. Girls date gangsters, thugs, drug dealers and guys who are not good for her at all; they don't have jobs, ever went to college or worse. Yet, who do you see these girls with?

Now let me rewind just a little bit! Just a minute ago I mentioned mentally wimpy guys do not attract girls, in fact, mentally wimpy guys are a major, major turn off no matter how big and strong you are! How do I know? Because at one point, I use to bench press 365 lbs. for 2 solid reps. And at one point, I was ranked #1 in the United States as a Muay Thai / Kick boxer, a State Champion in Boxing, ranked in wrestling, street fighter, trained in martial arts my entire life and a lot more. Yet, socially and publicly I was a total and complete wimp, especially with girls!

And because of that, I couldn't pick up women for the life of me! Or when I did have a girlfriend, she treated me like crap. And it was the most miserable experience of my life. I did that twice and learned the hard way! Now here's the funny thing. Every now and then I would here a girl say, "Why can't I find a real man, a man who knows how to put me in my place." Or they would say, "Why can't I find a guy who calls me on my B.S.." And I remember inside thinking, "Wow, this girl has problems if she thinks a guy is going to go out of his way to put her in her place or call her on her B.S.!" Yet, I was totally and completely wrong. I heard this for years, read it on dating sites on girls profiles, and on and on. And then one day it dawned on me to ask.

So I started asking older women in their 50's or older about girls and these subjects. And without hesitation, each and every one of them said the same damn thing. They told me, yes, when that girl tests you and tries to make you angry or tests your boundaries, you have to be firm and put her back in her place.

Now this shocked me to no end! I was tripping out inside my head for about a year on this subject. So, I finally started going to clubs and cafe's and book stores where I didn't know anyone. hahaha... I would drive over an hour to find places where I have never been and never will go again. I would approach girls, except this time I would do it with more of a Masculine, manly and with a bit of an aggressive edge to me. I would start a conversation and talk to her. And the minute a girl called me a name or smarted off to me or whatever, I would literally call her on her B.S. and I would do it loudly, in her face, in public and without a care in the world. See, I wasn't there to actually get her number or sex, although that would be a major plus. I was there to see if this actually worked!

And lo and behold, BAMM! These girls would actually smile and get real quite. And another thing I noticed is they would sway their bodies, get coy and their eyes would dilate big time! And they would swoon and melt right before my eyes. hahahahaha... I couldn't believe it.

I was totally and completely shocked because my entire life, I thought I was supposed to be Mr. Polite, nice and be a good boy! Yet, after frustrating years and years of being single or with women who disrespected me, I finally had it and had to try something new. Turns out that it actually turns women on and attracts them mentally, emotionally and sexually when they find a man who raises his voice, speaks up for himself and puts her in her place! Yes, it's a sexual turn on for women!

Now, Testing. This is sooooooooo important for you to understand!

Mother nature hard-wired women to test you a lot, especially when they first meet you and on the first couple of dates, maybe more. See, she is trying to see if you are man enough to call her on her B.S. of being rude or making jokes on you or calling you names. And yes, women will call you names. I had a friend of mine who was at a club with me and he was being Mr. Nice guy. hahahahahah... Big, Big, Big mistake!

So what does she do to him in front of her girlfriends and me? Hahahahahahaha... She says, "Oh, You're Gay!" hahahahahaha... And my friend just froze about died and was so freaking embarrassed! (By the way, women will do this a lot, especially at clubs in big cities. It's a test, so let er rip and rip into her and watch her melt and smile.)

So stepped in and called her a Bitxx. And started attacking her verbally and next thing you know, she smiled, became a little girl and became very sensual with me. And yes, I got a kiss and her number a little while later. So later on, my friend asked me, "Why do girls always ask me if I'm gay!" I start laughing and say, because you are nice!" "I'm serious!" "You've got to hold your ground and speak up!" "And when she says something rude to you, tell her she's fat and desperate or her dress doesn't look good or whatever!" "It's a test for crying out loud."

Ok, look, the other thing, is that if you are Mr. Nice, she will call you on it. By calling you a name or testing you in some way. Now here's the thing. It's a Golden opportunity! She is literally saying inside, "Please, please be a man!" "Don't let little ole me scare you away, I'm a little girl for crying out loud!" She is purposely giving you an opportunity!!! Now take advantage of it, she has practically surrendered to you. Now Take it! She wants you too! Yes, I am serious.

#2 Women associate. That's what women do because they are largely in their right, emotional and associative brain. Well, what does that mean? It means, that whatever you are like with her, is what she will associate to you and then her brain will literally generalize that to what she imagines you are like in the real world!

So, if you are Mr. Nice guy with her, she thinks you are Mr. Nice guy out at the work force and out in the world and in her mind, how can he survive out there if he's this nice! And this is a major, major turn off! So you have to be gruff and aggressive and tough. Now what do I mean?

Don't be so damn agreeable with her. Let her know in a strong way if you don't like something or if you want to go somewhere and she says no, or whatever. Don't give up so easily, freaking make your voice be heard. And inside she will like it and respect you for it. But if you are Mr. Nice, she will lose all respect for you! Period!

I mean, don't be such a freaking wimp, get angry when you are angry. Don't apologize all the time, in fact, rarely apologize. Ok, what I really mean, is when you are grumpy, then act and be grumpy. If she does something you don't like, then tell her in a firm and strong way. Women like this. Seriously watch her smile, then hug you then make love to you and even cook and clean. I'm serious.

And don't always be Mr. Kid gloves with her or kitten gloves, however you say that. Be a Caveman once in a while. I'm serious. Show her you are the boss, it's a huge turn on for her. Even if you just growl like a Caveman as a joke, do it once in a while, there is a system in her reptilian brain that likes this and is assures her and calms her down when you act manly and growl once in a while. And, this is a big one. Literally pick her up and throw her over your shoulder and smack her on the ass and then take her to your bed and make love to her! This is my biggest secret to getting a girl to have sex with me. Works every single time.

And yes, if you are married for crying out loud, do this, she will appreciate it. I am serious!

Ok, so to wrap this section up, you have to understand one important thing. Her body and right emotional brain are literally feeling the feelings you are giving off. So if you are nervous, scared or anxious, she's going to feel that too and it makes her feel nervous and scared and that will make her want to run. Now, if you are coming across as strong, powerful and grounded, calm and confident, guess what she feels? Yep, you guessed it, strong, powerful, grounded and confident and that's a great feeling for a girl to have. So if she feels this when she meets you, then she's going to want to be with you because those feelings turn her on sexually and make her horny, with you. This is what I mean when I say, women associate into you!

#3 Stand your ground, be firm, grounded, and speak up!

Now women can't stand men who are wishy-washy or wimpy and especially do not talk in a low volume. Turn that volume up! The more the better for most guys because most guys are way, way, way to quite and it's irritating because it causes your listener to strain to hear you and that's freaking frustrating in a big, big way!

Oh yes, when you are at a club do not, do not, do not lean in close to talk into her ear because the music is too loud! Hell no! Don't do it! What you must do is raise your volume up and speak loud enough so she can clearly hear you! If you are truly speaking loud and I mean really loud, she can lean into you and listen. That's the way it's done! I am serious!

So be solid and don't let a girl push you around at all. And you lead, not her! So you grab her hand and pull her, not the other way around.

Take these 3 tips into account and watch women smile and move towards you!

Good luck guys! Have fun, laugh loudly and help her have a good time by you being a man!

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HAVING FUN WITH WOMEN IS EASY ONCE YOU KNOW HOW!

Yes, there is something very powerful going on beneath the surface that both men
and women are completely oblivious too...

There is actually a form of communication that women truly love to receive and it
melts her heart and makes her want to make love to you!!!

So you don't need to lie!
You don't need to Manipulate!
You don't need to pay for dinner for sex, love and respect!

All you have to do is learn how to communicate in this language that triggers her mating system
to choose, yes, willingly choose and desire to make love to you and bond with you emotionally for a deeper, more emotionally fulfilling level of connecting!

Now isn't this more important than simply paying for dinner and expecting sex? Why yes it is...

Here's the deal. This way of Romancing a women is 100% faster than the male way! In fact the Male way simply doesn't work.... because the male way triggers the male to want to have sex. hahahaha... You know, paying for dinner, taking a shower, getting a hair cut, dressing nice, looking good... Candle light dinner, movies, etc. It's nice... but, that's now what women want!
They want a deeper, more emotionally fulfilling level of bonding and it's not done by paying for dinner or chocolates or flowers or gifts or a nice new car! Seriously!

Ok, there's good news and then there's the Great news!

The Good news, is once you learn this form of Romantic Seduction and fulfillment, you won't ever, ever, ever have to pay for Dinner, Gifts, flowers, etc. Which means, You get to SAVE a lot of money!!!

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But for those of you who don't learn how to do this, well, you will spend a ton of money and you will get the typical response after you have paid for an expensive dinner, movies, wine, drinks, etc.

A. You are so sweet and get a kiss on the cheek or a hand shake. OR

B. I have a headach. I think I am just going to go home and go to bed!

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